Q: Would you say that TFIOS is a realist novel?
No.
I don’t find realism very interesting. Like, I am not convinced that there even is a reality totally independent of its observer.
I write fiction, and it’s not my ambition that a reader feel like my story is a work of journalism. My hope is that readers become so emotionally invested in the story that even though they know it’s made up, it is still powerful and alive and important to them. At times, this means using realistic elements; at other times, it involves fantastical or hyper-real elements (witness having been dumped by 19 girls named Katherine, for example).